The words "hater" "haterism" "haterade" has GOTS TO GO!!!

I know it's not just me but i'm sooooooo sick and tired of people of all colors and background using the word, "hater." The way I feel about that word or those similar phrases saying that it's overrated will not do it any justice because it's literally beyond that point of no return. From what I know the word, "hater" was coined from rappers and hip hop artists attempting to give a name to someone who does not respect or follow their agenda. If they are against you are they haters or simply just doesn't want to support you and you want to make them feel bad? I'm sure they're alot of people want to get mad at blogs that specifically "hate" on entertainers such as the hateonbeyonce.blogspot.com or tomcruiseisnuts.com and etc but could you really say they're "haters" or exercising their first amendment rights to say what they will as long as it follows EEOC guidelines? We as Americans have become so obsessed with the term we have gotten so delusional about how we supposed to live our life. I don't know about you but I will not live my life just based on what people said I CAN'T do. Are you living your life for me or for you? As alot of these artists, mainly rappers and r&b singers, repeat this word or similar phrases they never really say where the "haters" are what why the "haters" might be so called "hating". You have artists who have never made an album or only been local or underground saying they have "haters." Alot of these entertainers need to go see the doctor and tell him to perscribe them some nigga please because i'm not buying what they're selling. People don't understand the term was birth to make people feel bad for their negative opinions and you suppose to support and love them no matter what. I'm not hating..........i'm just saying.........This word got regular joe blow on the street thinking he got "haters" and this is what our community resulting to? This word has negative connotations behind it and we accepted it as cool. If you have on a pair of shoes and I said I didn't like them does that make me a "hater?" I must have a very strong dislike for your shoes in order for me to hate them so much. That's what the word "hate" means:

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hate 
 /heɪt/ Show Spelled Pronunciation [heyt] Show IPA Pronunciation verb, hat⋅ed, hat⋅ing, noun
–verb (used with object)
1. to dislike intensely or passionately; feel extreme aversion for or extreme hostility toward; detest: to hate the enemy; to hate bigotry.
2. to be unwilling; dislike: I hate to do it. –verb (used without object)
3. to feel intense dislike, or extreme aversion or hostility.–noun
4. intense dislike; extreme aversion or hostility.
5. the object of extreme aversion or hostility.

Now that we have Obama in office we need to raise our level, step our game up and push our weight because this sort of nonsense is beyond stupid and childish when you learn about it. We will not take this ghetto trash anymore. People have to understand we have rights and choices and if you don't like something or against something that doesn't make you a "hater" it makes you a human with a brain that's connected to some nerves that work pretty well. It's almost 2009 and we should take a stand on boycotting or NOT accepting, supporting and celebrating this buffoonery. YES WE CAN!!!!